Do you know when it's okay to complain? To bitch and moan and whine about your life? When you're old and decrepit; when you have nothing else you can do with yourself. Or, when you need an outlet to vent about the circumstances you find yourself in. So you can get it all out; relieve the pressure.
Just, don't stay there, in that state of mind. Get it out, then get off your ass and do something to change your circumstances.
Everyone has shit happen to them. Everyone has events go the wrong way. We all have to overcome something to get to where we want to go. Trying to garner sympathy with constant pity parties will not help you. Nor will it endear you to others. In fact, it will only irritate them and alienate you.
Daddy didn't love you? Or loved you too much? That really is too bad - really and truly. But you need to do something with your life, and stop letting that aspect of your past rule you.
Lost your job? Your house? Your family? An addiction got the better of you? You have to start all over? You feel lost and alone?
Welcome to humanity. Knuckle down and push forward. No one wants to hear your sob story. It's polite to tolerate it, but no one really cares. What we care about is you not being a whiny little brat around us.
Keep your problems to yourself. Work to better your life. then let us know about the triumph over adversity. Don't share the story of the struggle until it's over. Otherwise, it's just complaining.
Don't be a Fucktard.
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